Relationship Counseling - 6 Questions to Ask

 

Consulting is a very broad term. Most people generally think of psychotherapy and psychology as the field of relationship counseling. They do not realize that the focus of psychology is on mental illnesses and the study of those illnesses. I understand that practical family counseling is rarely covered in the general training of prospective psychologists. Health professionals tend to focus on symptoms and treatment rather than on preventative medicine, including diet and exercise.

From my point of view, it is very unfortunate that psychologists are considered by most people to have the same level of education and intelligence as doctors. In contrast, psychologists tend to have about the same IQ as most people and, for the most part, do not face the typical challenges most people have. Because most of the time it's not very common sense. Before you find a relationship counselor among the many people in the phone book, prepare some frequently asked questions. 

• Ask what courses they have taken to help you or your loved one.
• Ask them to define a healthy relationship so you can understand how they view success.
• Ask if you can define a path to success with milestones.
• Ask her how she will know if you are on the right path toward a healthy and happy relationship.
• She asks the client if she ever recommended divorce and why. 
• Ask what you think are the practical reasons for divorce.

Asking the above questions will help you build the right relationship with every consultant. They are there to serve you in exchange for your hard-earned money. Do not confuse psychotherapy with relationship counseling. Also, don't let the family counselor mess you up.

So what happens when you go to relationship counseling? There must be a big difference in your mind about whether you are married or not, whether you have children or not. If you are neither married nor have children, you should always consider the option of separation if you feel that you are incompatible. A good relationship counselor, psychologist or not, can help determine that. If you are already married and struggling with no children, it is very important to learn and understand what marriage is and what is expected of you before considering divorce options. I wrote a lesson for a happy marriage. Finally, if you are married and have children, the consequences of ending a marriage are so great that it is better to let innocent children suffer for the rest of their lives if necessary than to destroy their homes and hurt them. Good. I have developed a lesson for your children. We do not believe that God created marriage for us to suffer. If we understand and act upon the principles of marriage, marriage is heaven on earth. What earthly experience could be more satisfying and more open-minded than living with a loving family?